Advice I have received re: my blog post on Monday about my compulsion to fix ish.
-If you're trying to make things happen, it's because you believe YOUR way is best, and, well, it just might not be. To think so usually means you're just very fearful of how things will turn out if you don't have complete control. Obvs, fear is not good.
-Be aware of the expectations you have for yourself and others. This will help minimize how much you are trying to control. What's really important? And why? Be in charge of a few things. Let the rest fall into place.
-It is important to enjoy life NOW instead of believing we must live a certain way to get to an eventual future we can enjoy.
-Being happy is worth chucking previously-designed plans under a canoe.
-Ultimately where you're headed is good, and you're not responsible for making everything perfect in the meantime. Problems aren't even problems when seen in the correct light.
I saw tail lights last night in a dream about my old life.