The morning could be a little slow since my first meeting was set for 10:30. I did the Midnights Taylor Swift workout and sent a long email to my play cast and crew. The show opens in two weeks, and my producer hat is quite heavy. For the previous two weeks my writer hat has been heaviest, but I got cherished feedback from Roff on Tuesday and then more cherished feedback from Gos on Wednesday. Their interpretations of the piece have calmed many of my worries. I am very close to saying what I mean, I think. I have just one thing to sort out still, and I have three good options, or so I think. We will get to "find it" in rehearsals, which would be a scary thing to believe, if it didn't usually work out so very well.
The aforementioned meeting was as a brightly lit diner, with two theatre producers. I really believe in them. Twelfth (or so) time is the charm. They're the most promising partners who have approached me by far. The secret, I think, is one has the business brains and speaks the business language. The other is simplyScrappy. I believe she could make a paper box a hit. She has done it so many times. She says, in no uncertain terms, "Once you tell me we can do this, I will make it happen." I dunk my sweet potato biscuit in strawberry jelly and nod enthusiastically.
I become incredibly overwhelmed on the drive home. This has been happening since January because I live in a country descending into fascism. The political upheaval we are living through is terrifying and confusing on a daily, if not hourly, basis. I will not stop thinking or speaking about this, although it all makes me uncomfortable. Of course I am uncomfortable--we are in grave danger.
Eventually Puhg walks down to the carport where I've been sitting for a while, answering emails. We switch keys. He takes the car for errands and I sing "Better Than Revenge" in the kitchen with a wooden spoon. I write Congress. I write emails to my new theatre agents and the other production's producer, filling them all in. I start on my new commercial for a company I am currently boycotting. I think about how my boss told me, "Our goal is for girls to feel like they need every single product." I wonder how I can subvert that message, with the teeny tiny power I have. I met an older activist several months ago, at a protest. The back of his jacket said, "words are spells." I think about that phrase a lot these days.
I eat a bagged salad. At four I've got to get to my knoll. I bring individual bags of cookies to the guys I see there. I sit under the shade of a sharp tree listening to Lily Allen. I outline two essays I have outlined several times before. One I have been trying to get right for at least eight months.
I listen to a YouTube lecture about shame while having a little mouse snack of cashews and apples before getting dressed up. My pink sparkle two piece is so cute and magically comfortable. Puhg sweetly drives me to the theater for my friend's weird music show. I have no idea who will be there and I am boldly showing up as Gay Taylor Swift. I get a seltzer and wobble in, quickly running into one of my favorite people dressed as Britney Spears. She's talking to a comedian I worked with this summer, but it was on Zoom, so this is a first meeting. He's dressed like Cruella and later sings "Drops of Jupiter."
I have one of the best nights I've had in a very long time. The acts were truly talented and funny and most importantly I danced and sang a LOT. I have learned, when it comes to live music, I go harder than most, and unfortunately I cannot help that. I know I am either a concert hero or villain, depending on if you are sitting right behind or next to me. There was Alanis, Sum 41, Beyonce, Powerline, Carrie Underwood, Fountains of Wayne and I was nestled in with so many old friends--the guy I watch Survivor with and the gal I see at coffee shops and my old director from Chicago and the animator who made my deck and the short story writer dressed as a nun and the actor from that play I dramaturged. My friend the bassist says she is excited to introduce me to her new boyfriend. We shake hands and I realize he played a main character in my old favorite TV show. He is dressed as Nic Cage.
I head to the sidewalk for air and stand in a circle of whoever is there. The shy comedian who lives on my block and her boyfriend, dressed as Colin Mocherie and Ryan Stiles--what a choice. It's so soothing, to be in a circle of improviser types. We ask each other how fast the billionaires plan to kill us. A girl walks to her Uber and shouts behind to me, "I love your dancing!" But she also laughs like, you nutjob! I call a car and invite my neighbors back with me. We chatter on the ride, the Dodgers may win the World Series.
I get excited tromping up the stairs to our apartment. Puhg, for the sixth year in a row, outdoes himself on his homemade haunted house. (Mind you, we went to Six Flags Thursday also!) Candles, rituals, notes, dummies, ghosts. The whole thing culminated in me running into the closet to hide. I stood there nervously for several minutes before Puhg began breathing loudly, revealing he'd been in there the entire time. And then he was wearing a horrid mask. I am very lucky, this I know.
I ordered Taco Bell nachos and a bean burrito, sat on the balcony waiting for it until 1 AM. I went down in my sandals and a puffer coat to grab it from the driver, so he didn't have to navigate parking and getting buzzed in and the elevator. I could tell he was pleased to see me. I ate my feast on the sofa, while watching Love on the Spectrum. The girl who loves dolls gets her first kiss.
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